Dec
27

Thai Music song Jung Wa Hua Jai by Bie The Star

“Jung-wa Hua Jai”

Another popular Thai Music song ” Jung Wa Hua Jai “

by Bie The Star.

Thai Music song Jung Wa Hua Jai by Bie The Star

 by Bie Sukrit  Wisetkaew

 

บี้ The Star – จังหวะหัวใจ – Jung Wa Hua Jai

อยู่ๆใจก็ตึกตั่ก ก็เพราะเธอมันน่ารัก

yoo yoo jai gor teuk tak gor pror ter man naa rak

Suddenly my heart would palpitates, and it’s because you’re so cute.

อยู่ๆกันสักพักอยู่ให้ผมรักๆๆ
yoo yoo gan sak pak yoo hai pom rak rak rak
Being with me for a while, to let me love, love, love.

อยู่ๆก็มาใกล้คงไม่ปล่อยไปง่ายๆ
yoo yoo gor maa glai kong mai  ploi  pai ngaai ngaai
Suddenly you came close to me, and I would probably not let you go easily.

ส่งสัญญาณมาหน่อยเด่ ได้ๆป่าว
song san-yaan maa noi day daai daai  pao
Send a little signal to me, can you?

ลวดลายร้อนแรง เธอแซงได้ทุกคน
luat laai ron raeng ter saeng daai took kon
Rousing demeanor, you overwhelms everyone.

ยิ้มเธอพุ่งชนเข้าทันทีที่พบเจอ
yim ter poong chon kao tan tee tee pop jer
Your smile strikes as soon as one sees it.

โยกทีย้ายทีเล่นเอาใจฉันสั่น
yohk tee yaai tee len ow  jai chan san
The way you moves, it pleases me tremendously.

อุตส่าห์ระวังก็ยังไม่วายชอบเธอ
oot sah ra wang gor yang mai waai chop ter
I tried to be careful but still I can’t help liking you.

แกล้งกันบ่อยๆ ยังนี้คงไม่ปล่อย
glaeng gan boi boi yang nee kong mai ploi
Teased me often, still I may not let you go.

คงต้องลองๆ ต้องคลิกกันดูหน่อย
kong tong long-long tong click gan doo noi
I probably must try, must click with you and see.

รักหรือจะหลอกเดี๋ยวรู้ไม่ต้องบอก
rak reu ja lok dieow roo mai tong bok
Whether you love or decieve me, in a while I’ll know, no need to tell me.

ขอจับใจเธอหน่อยเต้นแรงแค่ไหน
kor jap jai ter noi ten raeng kae nai
Ask to capture your heart a little; how hard does it beats.

มาเล่นให้ใจฉันเต้นแบบนี้ ฉันว่าเธอก็มีอาการใช่ไหม
maa len hai jai chan ten baab nee chan waa ter gor mee ah gaan chai mai
You came to play and let my heart beats like this. I think you also have symptoms too isn’t it?

ใจมันเต้น มันเต้น เป็นจังหวะรัก
jai man ten man ten  pen jung wa rak
My heart beats, it beats as the rhythm of love.

แล้วเธอล่ะอ่ะเต้นจังหวะยังไง
laaw ter la a ten jung wa yang ngai
Then what about you, what rhythm does yours beat?

 

ทำไมต้องมาอายล่ะ ก็แค่อยากรู้จังหวะ
tam mai tong maa aai la gor kae yaak roo jung wa
Why must you be shy, I only want to know the rhythm.

ไหนขอจับได้ไหมล่ะ ก็แค่ขอจับจังหวะ
nai kor jab daai mai la gor kae kor jap jung wa
Can I capture it? I only ask to capture the rhythm.

What you know I wanna คิดเหมือนกันหรือเปล่าล่ะ
What you know I wanna kid meuan gan reu  plao la
What you know I wanna, do you think like me?

ส่งสัญญาณให้รับทราบได้ๆป่ะ
song san yaan hai rap saap dai dai pa
Send a signal to let me know, can you?

ได้ใจ ได้ใจ รู้ไหมเธอได้ใจ
daai jai daai jai roo mai ter daai jai
Had my heart, had my heart, do you know that you had my heart?

เอาใจฉันไปแบบไม่ทันได้ตั้งตัว
aow jai chan pai baab mai tan daai tang tua
You took my heart away when I’m not ready to prepare myself.

ได้อีก ได้อีก ยังโดนใจได้อีก
daai eek daai eek yang dohn jai daai eek
You still can catch my fancy more.

อย่าปล่อยลีลาลวดลายล่องลอยไม่กลัว
yaa  ploi lee laa luad laai long loi mai glua
Don’t give up your graceful demeanor, I’m not afraid of it floating along.

แกล้งกันบ่อยๆ ยังนี้คงไม่ปล่อย
glaeng gan boi boi yang nee kong mai  ploi
Teased me often, still I may not let you go.

คงต้องลองๆ ต้องคลิกกันดูหน่อย
kong tong long long  tong click gun doo noi
I probably must try, must click with you and see.

รักหรือจะหลอกเดี๋ยวรู้ไม่ต้องบอก
rak reu ja lok dieow roo mai  tong bok
Whether you love or decieve me, in a while I’ll know, no need to tell me.

ขอจับใจเธอหน่อยเต้นแรงแค่ไหน
kor jap jai ter noi  ten raeng kae nai
Ask to capture your heart a little; how hard does it beats.

มาเล่นให้ใจฉันเต้นแบบนี้ ฉันว่าเธอก็มีอาการใช่ไหม
maa len hai jai chan ten baab nee chan waa ter gor mee ah gaan chai mai
You came to play and let my heart beats like this. I think you also have symptoms too isn’t it?

ใจมันเต้น มันเต้น เป็นจังหวะรัก
jai man  ten man  ten  pen jung wa rak
My heart beats, it beats as the rhythm of love.

แล้วเธอล่ะอ่ะเต้นจังหวะยังไง
laaw ter la a ten jung wa yang ngai
Then what about you, what rhythm does yours beat?

(Interlude)

มาเล่นให้ใจฉันเต้นแบบนี้ ฉันว่าเธอก็มีอาการใช่ไหม
maa len hai jai chan  ten baab nee chan waa ter gor mee ah gaan chai mai
You came to play and let my heart beats like this. I think you also have symptoms too isn’t it?

ใจมันเต้น มันเต้น เป็นจังหวะรัก
jai man ten man  ten  pen jung wa rak
My heart beats, it beats as the rhythm of love.

แล้วเธอล่ะอ่ะเต้นจังหวะยังไง
laaw ter la a ten jung wa yang ngai
Then what about you, what rhythm does yours beat?

มาเล่นให้ใจฉันเต้นแบบนี้ ฉันว่าเธอก็มีอาการใช่ไหม
maa len hai jai chan  ten baab nee chan waa ter gor mee ah gaan chai mai
You came to play and let my heart beats like this. I think you also have symptoms too isn’t it?

ใจมันเต้น มันเต้น เป็นจังหวะรัก
jai man ten man ten pen jung wa rak
My heart beats, it beats as the rhythm of love.

แล้วเธอล่ะอ่ะเต้นจังหวะยังไง
laaw ter la a ten jung wa yang ngai
Then what about you, what rhythm does yours beat

 


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Dec
21

Revolution in Thailand?

Is it really conceivable that we could be on the brink of Revolution in Thailand….The land of Smiles?

Revolution in Thailand

I am no expert on Politics in Thailand or for that matter any kind of politics but I do have a keen knowledge and sense of history and having spent a lot of time in Thailand and being married to a Thai woman I can see and feel the massive change that is taking place in that exotically beautiful country.

The disturbing and almost surreal scenes we witnessed only just over a year ago in 2010 of ‘Thai killing Thai‘ certainly set the stage for change and I for one had the inkling that even though those scenes eventually stopped that it would not be the end of it. Of course we know that wasn’t the beginning of it all as there had been previous eruptions of unusual aggression in the country famed for it’s passive and peace loving nature.

The history of French revolution The history of English revolution

But history shows us that once the seeds have been sown they will eventually grow into something more substantial and it seems Thailand’s history like many other countries is being written in front of our very eyes.

What I have found interesting is that only a couple of years ago I was being told to be careful of what I say in Thailand. Even as a Farang, who supports the right to freedom of speech and thought I could find myself in some hot water or even worse if I was not careful. For many Farang it is difficult to conceive the idea that we cannot freely express our opinions and observations whether positive or negative as throughout history we have fought many wars for that right.

It is interesting to witness the changes in attitude of many Thai people who are now beginning to voice a similar objection and express their thoughts, ideas and opinions about their country, their Monarchy and the state of their politics and constitution. This is causing reactions between Thais who hold different views and it doesn’t take much to see that this cause will eventually effect massive change and possibly a Revolution in Thailand.

Usually it takes one empowered leader to stand up and show a passion and commitment for progression of the masses and revolution will surely follow. You might think me being a bit hasty or even excessive using the word Revolution in Thailand but how else would you describe a country that is on the verge of changing old ways that have been bitterly held onto for centuries, to new ways that some are bitterly resisting?

Only recently we are hearing more and more about cases of people being jailed in Thailand for exercising what we call in the West our basic human right of freedom of speech.

The question is just how big will this change be and how fast will it occur. How much resistance will there be from the traditionalists and to what level will force be required to effect the change. We saw last year that the proponents of the change “The red shirts” are prepared to use some force and the resistors “The yellow shirts” are also prepared to use force as well.

However, the difference that we see now is there is a new Thai Government that openly supports the change and so it remains to be seen if this will help in making the change more passive and peaceful without the need for bloodshed and violence we witnessed last year and sadly witness all over the world.Thailand revolution

If it is inconceivable we are on the brink of Revolution in Thailand and is it also inconceivable to wonder if it could be achieved peacefully. History tells us not. Yet Thailand is a very passive country by nature and predominantly Buddhist in culture both of which promote peaceful acceptance of change. Could this be the one key element that could allow true democracy in Thailand to evolve without war?

It looks like 2012 could be a very interesting and profound year in the history of Thailand. Let’s hope that they can demonstrate to the world that change can be made without bloodshed.

 


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Nov
12

Online dating and Thai Girls – what you should really know about this!

Online dating has become so popular in recent years it has opened up a whole new world of dating issues.

online dating and thai girls

It really is just another way for people to meet but online dating is also another way for people to cheat because insincere people see the opportunity to meet people easily online and take advantage of them.

Often this involves sending money and so it is so much easier to scam innocent people and naturally some people are more easily fooled than others. Scammers know this and play on those weaknesses and especially on the emotions of those who are looking for love, desperate to find a love and want someone to share life with.

Online dating and Thai Girls

Apart from advising many people in relationships with Thai women I also have experience about the online dating industry, not least of which is my own experience of meeting my husband online although we met on a normal social network site rather than a dating site.

If you have read any of my other posts on my other site http://www.eastwestromanceonline.com you will know that I really do recommend that you meet in person as soon as possible after meeting online and deciding that you have what you think might be real feelings for each other.

One of the issues that does come up a lot in my role as Thai Girlfirend Advisor is the issue of supporting your Thai Girlfriend financially and my advice is always that one meeting for a few days is not enough to make the decision to begin to support her. If you don’t know her family, if you don’t know where she lives, where she works and was she married or maybe she is still a married woman then you need to take more time to find out if she is genuine or not.

To try and give it some sort of perspective imagine If you meet a woman in your own country for a date one time or even twice would you ask her to move in with you and support her financially?

In the words of Phil Collins “Don’t hurry love”

I often get emails from Western men who want to check with me about their Thai Girlfriend who they are supporting financially and who are constantly needing more financial support. What they always want to know of course is ” Is she after my money ?, Does she really love me or just my money, Can I trust her? “ etc etc.

I am a very positive woman who always looks for the best in people and especially my own country but to be honest if a Thai girl is always telling you about her money problems and looking for financial support from you then this is probably not real love and she may well be looking for an easy ticket.

The reason I say this is because I believe the more genuine way is that people will try to sort their own problems out…they will be more up front more direct and honest. Yes they may tell you about their problems because they don’t want to hide anything but they won’t expect or create the expectation for you to be constantly having to solve their financial problems….and also their families financial problems which is something you hear a lot of with Thai girls who are not so genuine.

Think about this.

When we first meet…we want to show our good side. We don’t want to always bring burden to the other person if we really have strong feelings of love for them. So why would someone constantly go on and on about all their financial problems so soon after meeting if they wanted a genuine relationship?

Because we always fear to begin with in a relationship, we fear we might lose that person if we always go on about our problems, debts family etc and expect to get help in that way…it’s called baggage….and Jerry Springer ( American Program)  has a whole program dedicated to it!

But my Thai girlfriend didn’t actually ask for money

Yes I hear many men say ‘oh she didn’t actually ask me for money‘…….but remember there are ways to create guilt feelings and create obligation rather than ask directly…this is a psychological game. But if a person is constantly coming up with problems…like I don’t have my own computer to chat with you, someone in family is sick, I have a debt to pay, education fees…. or I can’t pay for visa application to come to your country…or passport..or I don’t have the right clothes etc.  Then you must be honest and look at it clearly does she really love you or just want a meal ticket.

A question to ask yourself if you find you are in this situation is what will happen If you do not provide money to her…..what will  she do?  Will she stay with you or will she go?

And does your own fear then kick in and begin to make excuses for her? Because you know she may not come or she may go with other if you do not pay and so you panic because you let your passion take over. Maybe this is not so much wrong but where will it get you in the end?

If you met a woman in a western country who acted in this way what would you think?

Back to Online Dating

Getting back to the Online dating game and just to balance the scales a little there is a flip side

I have known some Thai women who have been taken advantage of by Farang men asking for money. Nigerian scammers..posing as white Farang from England or America are also a big problem online and many women are seduced into believing everything they say, the sweet words and promises of love and a beautiful life…if only they can help them with a business problem they have then a beautiful life is promised for both! Many of these men use other people’s photos and profiles to make you fall in love with them as well.

As always it is important that you do not become so blinded with love or lust that you fail to see the reality in situations. I know it is hard sometimes and I myself am a big supporter of love, forgiveness and loving kindness but sadly some will take advantage of this in others.

Read my article about dating Thai Bar girls

 


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Oct
30

Remarriage after divorce between Thai women and Western

My perspective on remarriage after divorce between Thai women and Western men

Recently I wrote an article with Dean about remarriage after divorce which I feel is a very important subject for many reasons.  Of course it is something I am familiar with in my own relationship but also with other people I know and also clients that I advise. The main point I believe is pertinent between Western men and Thai women who enter marriage after divorce is how people often try to make their new partner fit the void left by their old partner. This is especially true of older Western men who have a tendency to marry younger Thai women and have an expectation that they will fit perfectly into their existing life in a new country. When I say this I don’t wish to be judgmental or point the finger, it is simply that I have seen this many times and would love to provide some perspective on this issue in the hope of helping others and if you have read other posts on this site you will know that even though I am a Thai woman I always try to give honest and open perspectives from both sides. With the case of Thai women it is often because they can appear quite subservient in nature and indeed our culture has a strong desire to please and serve as well as a respect for our elders which is quite appealing to older Western men who perhaps feel that Western women have lost their sense of femininity through the push for equal rights. The danger I see here is one of control and expectation meaning that a Western man may feel because he is bringing a younger Thai woman to live in his country and in many cases giving her a better standard of living he will feel he is in charge and that she must fit into his existing life, perhaps filling the gap left by his previous wife…but without the hassle of course!

This is sometimes sadly at the expense of taking the view of creating a new life together!

Additionally, cultural differences and communication difficulties because of language can make this situation worse because of misunderstandings and the frustration of not being able to communicate effectively the wants and needs of both sides. But I feel that many Western men would in fact be quite willing to listen and adapt if things can be communicated to them effectively and Thai women happy to accommodate their mans needs if they knew exactly what was expected of them fairly because I actually feel they are a good mix.

Often our strengths can be our weakness and our weaknesses our strength if only we can recognize the difference.

As I said I do see a positive side to  relationships between Western men and Thai women and that is in fact the mix and balance between the two cultures is very good. Especially I have noticed between Australian men and Thai women because the lifestyle attitude of Australian men seems to fit very neatly with the culture attitude of Thai women. What I mean by this is that the Australian lifestyle is very much one of community, racial harmony, classless society, food and family connection and this fits very well with a Thai woman’s background and culture of family closeness and the desire to serve especially of course with food which is always the primary Thai way of giving and sharing. So what I believe is that for remarriage after divorce between Western men and Thai women taking the view of creating a new life together and clear understanding of both wants and needs are essential.

Read about the process of Marriage to a Thai National


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