Sawasdee ka Friends, On this page I will answer any question you have about Thai culture , Thai style and about relationships with Thai women. So I invite you to please ask your question as a comment below and I will give you my honest answer as best I can for you on this page.
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Hi Angella, How are you doing? Hope you and Dean are good. I recently set up a Thai Love Links profile which I know is very decent and truthful about myself.
On Thai Love Links there is an option to chat to another member on thesite, but the problem I find is when I start a conversation, they rarelyconnect to chat back.From what I have heard, Thai’s love to talk and someare offended if you don’t talk back to them. I have visited Thailand 3times before, and I notice how their culture is very different to mine,but I can not work this one out.
I love to read about Thai culture, and understand 99% of it, but hope youcan help me out with this small problem, and I appreciate any feedback Thank you, and keep up the good work on your website and everything else. Yours Sincerely. J
Firstly well done for setting up a Thai Love links profile and wish you
success with that. Ok well there can be many reasons and I can’t comment on your profile but I think I can give you a few ideas.
First is that from my experience I know some girls do not know they can chat on that site.
Another reason is many girls may not be able to talk English..so they will be shy to try cos they are not confident, sometimes some girls will be in a cafe online will get the owner or anyone there who can understand English to help…but if not they will not be able to chat and will fear to try.
So what can you do? Ok for start don’t give up and keep trying. Also perhaps learn a few words of Thai and start with that, no need to have big conversation in thai just a few word to start….for example Sawasdee khab which is hello in Thai…you can get more words like that and how to say
them on my website at this link
How is your profile? Remember many thai girl not able to read everything…Hope that help you J and Chok Dee
Thanks so much for your tips. I got your e-book & found it to be theelusive obvious.
I can speak basic Thai & have been slowly learning the last few years. I can hold a basic conversation for 15 minutes or so with someone without using English before I start running out of vocab.
Your tip today was interesting because now that I can speak some Thai I havefound it more of a disadvantage in meeting woman. Sure if I want to know agirl who has a very basic English ability it helps but I am interested building a relationship with a woman who already speaks English well.
From my experience in meeting a dozen or so women over the last year or sowho were all educated Thai women with a good English ability they mostlyreacted negatively to my speaking Thai. One woman even told me she wouldnever date a guy who could speak Thai. It seems that many Thai womanautomatically brand any Fa Rang who can speak Thai a playboy.
What is going here? I can not understand the almost universal disapprovalthese woman had of Fa Rang men speaking Thai. Most of these woman I metwere based here in New Zealand but some where also in Bangkok.I just read your advise email & it seems to go against my experience so Iamcurious as to what your opinion is on this.
Thankyou for your email ka, which I confess make me smile because it
correct what you say about Thai women when you speak Thai to them. It is
true that if you speak Thai too good then it can make them think you are
like a playboy or have many Thai women or something like that.
What I advise in my tips to men who don’t know any Thai language is just
to learn a few words and phrases for a first impression and just try as a
sign of respect to Thai people.
So Andy it’s not wrong you can speak Thai well and maybe you can explain
to Thai women quickly that you just enjoy to learn and speak Thai good, so
they no need to worry and get you wrong.
Khob khun ka and hope you enjoy more my tips and website