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If you keep a crocodile as pet you must understand it’s nature

The title of this post might make you laugh but when it comes to dealing with some Thai girls it is worth considering!

I have seen and heard of many men from the West who get involved with less sincere Thai girls only to complain when they get hurt or tricked out of money. Now I have to write this post as honest as I can and I dont want to upset anyone on purpose but I know that it might.

But you know the truth is the truth and sometimes there is just no point in pretending

What I have seen is that many western men think they can change these girls..or worse still they try to deny what they really are or were. So here is a couple of pointers to consider.

  1. It might sound noble to take a pretty Thai Girl from a bar and promise to care of her so she does not need to do that anymore but you have to remember old habits die hard, especially without any real psychological techniques to change them. What this means is that if you are going to get involved with a Thai girl like this then you must be prepared for the challenge that surely lies ahead.

The movie Shrek springs to mind here!!..lol You know what I mean? She is really a troll but to him she is a Princess but only in his mind. Or have you seen the movie Shallow Hal? Similar concept where in his mind she is beautiful..in fact she is beautiful on the inside and thats what I mean.

  1. If you take a girl like this as the title of the post suggest..she is likely to bite you a few times. Yes it is theoretically possible to change her..as it is to train a croc  but there is always that inner nature that can turn at anytime. I know some will say they were not born like this and that is true but if they have been doing this for some time then it has become part of their subconscious driver and needs serious work to change and that my friends will take more than just money!
  2. Great patience, understanding and accepting are required along with some knowledge of psychology 101..how to break habitual patterns, how to raise low self esteem and juicy stuff like that. What’s more this will be extremely difficult to do from a distance. You need to keep her close to you and so physical distance of being in different countries will be a real danger.
  3. Lastly as I said at the beginning if you are going to go this route with a Thai girl, for whatever reason and that is completely up to you and your choice then you need to understand her more. You need to understand the nature of girls like this and why they do what they do. Some do just for the money and some see it as a game, some out of desperation and need and some because it pays bills at home and they have low self esteem so don’t care about themselves…and many more reasons I suspect.
  4. If you go into this blindly with your ego flying the flag that you can change her then you you most likely will get done! Sorry but thats the way it is and I know men we like to sometimes think we can do anything, invincible!!! Problem is these girls are hypnotic and you will be in a love trance before you know it and thats when your world will slowly collapse..or quickly in some cases….trouble is you won’t feel a thing until afterwards.

Crocodile is not a pet

So, be clear with yourself. Don’t leave your intelligence back in your own country. Be prepared to accept the consequences of your actions and not blame others if things don’t quite go your way. Understand the nature of the beast and if you must keep a crocodile as a pet, then be aware it may bite you from time to time.

Chok Dee

Dean

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2 Comments

  1. Great words of wisdom Dean. I could not agree with you more. The other thing men from the west do is go to Thailand and other south East Asian countries thinking they have all the answers but they do not even know what questions to ask.

    Great Stuff

  2. Werni

    When i’m walking trough Hua Hin and see a lot of old daddys with there young thai lady, i have to lave. Those old blokes think they now everything about live and don’t relase that the thaigirl in there arm knows a lot more….

    Yes great stuff, but we know…. they don’t listen!

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